He’s In

When I was 16 years old I worked at a girls’ camp. One of the college-aged counselors introduced us to a song called, “The Times Come to Try.” I liked the sound and melody of the song, but I never quite got the meaning of it. All the older counselors seemed to really relate to it, but I guess I was too young. Well now, 16 years later I finally understand the meaning. The lyrics go like this:

I know what I have now, safety and love and friends forever.

I know what I have now, but there’s more.

Got this dream inside me and it knows no boundaries.

Maybe it’s too big to satisfy.

But I know now the times come to try.

I feel this song strongly relates to what our family has done with Stephen going back to school. We left the safety and security of his previous career path to follow a dream. I finally understand what it means to make changes in life, for the sake of trying to fulfill a dream.

Stephen will graduate in May with his Masters and we knew it was now or never to try to pursue a Doctorate. He applied for the PhD program in computer science and although he has really excelled in school and won the respect of his professors and classmates, it was never a sure thing that he would be accepted into the program. One obstacle was the reality that his current professor does not have the funding to take on another PhD student. And to add to the dilemma, this professor is currently the ONLY professor at the U doing the type of research Stephen wants to do.

BUT there is a glimmer of hope. A new professor in the same area of research is coming to the U this fall. And IF he would pick Stephen as his research assistant then that would be the miracle we needed to let Stephen continue to get his PhD. BUT there are MANY other students wanting this same position with the new professor.

In Stephen’s letter of intent for his application he mentioned this new professor as who he would like to work with hoping that the acceptance committee would make that connection.

Well, before Stephen even found out if he was accepted to the program he received an email from this new professor asking Stephen to explain the type of research he would like to do and any project ideas. I saw this request as a total miracle. Stephen saw this too as a miracle, but also a daunting task. He wasn’t exactly sure what to tell this professor. He didn’t have any really great project ideas off the top of his head. And what if he suggested an idea and the professor didn’t think it was a good fit for his research. And truly all Stephen really wanted to express to this professor, was “I will do any research you want me to. I will be your slave and sidekick, because I need you in order to get my doctorate.” Not exactly the most academic or professional thing to tell a prospective employer.

Luckily, before Stephen had the chance to fully compose and send his response, the Professor emailed again saying he was sorry to put Stephen on the spot and maybe chatting over Skype would be more helpful. Stephen was thrilled. They chatted that afternoon and after a 45 minute conversation the professor told Stephen that he couldn’t promise anything, but he was going to recommend Stephen as his research assistant.

And sure enough a few days later Stephen got the official letter from the U stating that he was accepted into the Computer Science PhD program, assigned to be the research assistant for Professor Cem Yuksel and with full funding. Wow! We were both in awe and so grateful. Though we still have years to go to fulfill this dream, it is so amazing to see how the Lord has made it possible every step of the way.

As a side note, Stephen was contacted by DreamWorks to come back again this summer. Although I think about wanting to go back to the Bay area daily and we were VERY flattered by the offer, we had to decline because of having a baby this summer. I can’t handle all the stress of finding a place to live, moving, finding a new doctor, having a baby, caring for a newborn and then moving back. When he declined DreamWorks, Stephen tried to make it very clear that we would love to go back next summer. Stephen already received good offer from the U to teach this summer. So, for this year we are staying put.

We’re in the Club Now

We’ve joined the ranks of soccer moms and parents everywhere. We bought a minivan. With the up and coming arrival of our third child, we figured there was no way we could cram two car seats and a booster in our small backseat. Not that I didn’t want to try. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my old red Saab. Cracks, scratches and all. I’m happy to say we are keeping it. But a minivan will become a practical necessity for our growing family. So, say hello to our new red car.

The girls named her Red Rocket. Stephen and I prefer Red Rover. But, somehow I think the girls will win the naming contest. After all, I had Delilah (my red Saab) years before I had Mally and once she could talk she renamed it McQueen. And it’s been McQueen ever since.

Here's a video of Eva expressing her love, love, love for the minivan.

And speaking of love. It’s our eight year anniversary. So, I guess the new car is an anniversary gift to ourselves.

Birthdays, Boogers and Proud Parents

Eva had a birthday this week. Now she is an excited and energetic 4 year-old. To “celebrate” her big day I took her to the dentist. I know, probably not the nicest thing to do to a child on their birthday. And keeping with that theme, the next day I took her to the doctor for a check-up. She got 5 shots! Again, not the nicest thing to do to the birthday girl. But hopefully those booster shots will allow her to have many, many more birthdays to come.

 

   Here she is waiting at the doctor’s office.

Now that Eva is a big kid she sounded out and wrote her first word all by herself. The word she chose was “booger.” What parent wouldn’t be proud. 

Speaking of boogers. This morning she was drawing a picture of Stephen. She said, “Here is his nose. And here is his boogers.” It’s her attention to details that impresses us as her parents. Hopefully her vocabulary and spelling ability will expand as she gets older. That would really make us proud relieved.

Good News. We Don’t Need to Buy Baby Clothes

We found out this week we are having another girl. It was a little anti-climactic. When we were told all we could say was, “Okay.” A boy would have been different and cause for immediately going to the store to buy clothes. But with a girl, I am already stocked. In fact, that afternoon I went “shopping” in my basement. I have to admit it was very satisfying to go through the outfits and remember what Mally and Eva looked like in them. I can’t wait to see how cute this little one will look.

Truthfully, with this pregnancy I haven’t been wishing for either a boy or a girl. Unlike when I was pregnant with Eva. I was hoping and pretty sure she was going to be a boy. This time around I have been just wishing for a healthy baby. So, far that seems to be what we are having.

Click on the link below. For one of Stephen’s classes he needed to create a program that would morph between two images. So, he used two of our baby pictures and used it to announce that we were pregnant. We figured the morphed image would be a pretty good example of what this baby would look like. Since we all know that our offspring are a perfect 50/50 mix. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDGilPKniPY

My sister-in-law shared this comic with me. I found it funny and very relatable. Especially the part that expresses, if you think my belly is big you should check out my backside.

Kids are so Cute. Big Kids and Babies.

I have had this drawing made by Mally in Primary on our refrigerator since she brought it home in September, before I was pregnant. I thought it was so sweet. As a family we had been praying for another baby and I was so touched to see that it really was important to her too. From the picture you can see she is thanking Heavenly Father for her bike and on the other side she is asking Heavenly Father for a baby. Apparently a baby sister. Or baby brother who has to use hand-me-down baby girl blankets. Which may be the case. I just thought the picture was too cute not to share.

An update on my pregnancy if you care: All is well. I am 15 weeks along. Today at the doctor’s I got to hear the heart beat (always a happy sound). As much as I feel it is my right to complain about being pregnant, I have to say this pregnancy has been better than my other two. I have not been nauseated 24/7. I still throw-up pretty regularly, but just in the morning, not all day long. So, maybe we are having a boy, since I have heard people say you don’t get as sick with a boy. Boy or girl, I just want a healthy baby. At 11 weeks I was able to have an ultrasound because we couldn’t hear the heart beat. The baby was soooooo cute. It was wiggling none stop. It was so fun to see such a tiny yet perfectly formed baby inside me.

See, sooooo cute.

Merry, Merry!

This year I designed our Christmas card as an “I Spy” game. Can you spy what we’ve been up to this year? Merry Christmas! Love, the Wards

The Wonders of Christmas