In the past I have not been a total Jewel fan. In fact, my first real experience with her music was when I was 20 and got two of her CDs for Valentine’s Day from the boy I was dating and that same night (Valentine’s Day) I broke up with him. Such bad timing on my part. Now, I feel bad that I kept the CDs he gave me that night.
Anyway, I heard an interview with her on NPR with Scott Simon this past month and I was really impressed with what she said. I thought I would share her wisdom about having a happy and balanced life. I especially like what she said about being a good “parent to her music” and not selling out. I found her words to be very applicable to my life, because like her I too want my “whole like to be a great work of art.” Read the transcript and you’ll know what I mean. I even highlighted my favorite parts for your reading pleasure. Then click here to listen to her new album.
http://www.npr.org/templates/transcript/transcript.php?storyId=128243945
…JEWEL: Mm-hmm, with "Pieces of You." But I also realized it was a great opportunity to take all the pressure off. Because if I was conservative with money and saved it - I had in one album earned more money than I would probably ever need in my entire life.
The worst thing you can do for your art is be broke and be in a position where you're compromised, where now you have a lifestyle you're trying to support and you have to sell yourself out to have a hit. And my goal was to try and avoid being in that position ever. So I've always been very conservative with my money, simply for the fact that I wanted to try and be a good parent to my music.
SIMON: Let's listen, if we could, to "Satisfy."
(Soundbite of song, "Satisfy")
JEWEL: (Singing) If you love somebody, you better let it out. Don't hold it back while you're trying to figure it out. Don't be timid. Don't be afraid to hurt. Run toward the flame. Run toward the fire and hold on for all your worth. 'Cause the only real pain a heart can ever know is the sorrow of regret when you don't let your feelings show...
SIMON: Would I be wrong to think that this is kind of your song?
JEWEL: Yeah, it's a pretty personal lyric. You know, it's funny. As a kid, I always knew what would make me happy and I always struggled to work toward it. And I realized in my early 30's that I didn’t actually even know what made me happy. It's a lot simpler, things, than I thought.
I don’t know. You know, a lot of heroes were artists and a lot of them did great work. But they often died unhappy or estranged from their family. But -Steinbeck had written "The Grapes of Wrath," but at what cost? And I started looking at that, especially - I got to do a movie with Ang Lee, and I looked at doing a full-time acting career and a music career.
But when I looked at the cost of that, and I had just met my husband at that point, I thought, you know, I want my whole life to be a great work of art, not just my art. And that means paying attention to my entire life and trying to make sure my whole life is balanced.
And so I really stepped away from acting. I turned down work. I quit touring a lot of the world, in Asia and Europe and Australia, because I wanted to make sure I had a balanced life and I wasn’t just going to become some drug-addled, unhappy person that had a great career but had a miserable home life.
And all those thoughts and everything that I put into that is sort of what I put into writing the lyrics for "Satisfied," that it really is the simplest things - making sure you're spending time with the people you love.
SIMON: Boy, you’ve really thought about this, haven't you?
(Soundbite of laughter)
JEWEL: I over-think everything, I guess.
SIMON: Well, Jewel, it's been wonderful talking to you. Thanks so much.
JEWEL: Thank you. I really appreciate it.
SIMON: Jewel's new CD, "Sweet and Wild." Its in stores now. She joined us from NPR West.
Thank you, Jewel.
JEWEL: Thank you. I really appreciate it.
SIMON: Oh, my pleasure.
JEWEL: I’m such a fan. Thanks for having me on the show.
SIMON: Well, our pleasure. You're welcome any time.
JEWEL: Thank you.
