I have mixed feelings about her going off to kindergarten. As I drove up to the school I was getting teary-eyed. But I know she is ready and excited to go. I can’t wait to have her tell me about her day. But until then I will REALLY enjoy my 2 hours of childless interruptions. Mally at school. Eva napping. Me HAPPY!!!
Stephen started school last week. He is going to the University of Utah to get his Master’s in Computer Science with his emphasis in graphics.
This whole decision to have him go back to school has been a leap of faith for us. We always knew getting a higher degree was something we wanted and felt we should do. The timing finally seemed right and we left the comforts of steady work hours and salary for long days of lectures, homework and very little money. But promptings from the Spirit, inspired blessings and many answered prayers are proving to us that we are making the right decision.
Through the process of applying for school I knelt and prayed one day specifically that he would get accepted to the U. I wanted it so that we could stay in our home, our ward and especially near our family. A few days before we found out he was accepted to the U, I was on the computer doing something when I had a very strong impression tell me that the Lord heard my prayer and will give me what I want.
Sure enough he got into Utah’s program, a highly ranked program, while he was turned down by many other lesser ranked schools. We couldn’t be happier to have him going there.
He was accepted to the U, but without funding. Many grad students get offered paid tuition and a stipend when they are accepted. We were not so lucky. We had financially prepared for school, and with the worst case scenario (we pay for everything) we knew we could do it. But, every night we would pray that some teaching assistant position or research assistantship would come our way. The answer I always got to these prayers was a peaceful reassurance that God would provide. Over and over again as I would read my scriptures the most random scriptures would reconfirm to me that if we were obedient and trusted in the Lord we would prosper.
Last month Stephen found an online application to be a teaching assistant and filled it out. The deadline for it was the month prior, but he still submitted it hoping it could lead to a position next semester. To our surprise, the next week he was contacted by a professor asking him to be a TA for her class. Tears of joy filled my eyes.
With this position, his tuition is waived 100%, and he receives a regular living stipend plus free health insurance for him. Which means, less financial stress on both of us.
God does provide. Prayers are answered and miracles do happen.
So far schooling has been busy, overwhelming at times and physically draining for him. But, we have already been so impressed with the cool projects he is doing and all the new information he is learning. Stephen is at the U, though I won’t go so far to say he is a “Ute” because we all know his blood runs BYU blue. But he is gaining new respect and appreciation for the U.
This coming Friday is “Show Your Colors Day” at school. He is threatening to wear a BYU t-shirt. I think that is a BAD idea. I was on campus last week and saw a bumper sticker that read, “I HATE BYU.” I don’t want Stephen to run into that guy while wearing a BYU shirt.
In the past I have not been a total Jewel fan. In fact, my first real experience with her music was when I was 20 and got two of her CDs for Valentine’s Day from the boy I was dating and that same night (Valentine’s Day) I broke up with him. Such bad timing on my part. Now, I feel bad that I kept the CDs he gave me that night.
Anyway, I heard an interview with her on NPR with Scott Simon this past month and I was really impressed with what she said. I thought I would share her wisdom about having a happy and balanced life. I especially like what she said about being a good “parent to her music” and not selling out. I found her words to be very applicable to my life, because like her I too want my “whole like to be a great work of art.” Read the transcript and you’ll know what I mean. I even highlighted my favorite parts for your reading pleasure. Then click here to listen to her new album.
http://www.npr.org/templates/transcript/transcript.php?storyId=128243945
…JEWEL: Mm-hmm, with "Pieces of You." But I also realized it was a great opportunity to take all the pressure off. Because if I was conservative with money and saved it - I had in one album earned more money than I would probably ever need in my entire life.
The worst thing you can do for your art is be broke and be in a position where you're compromised, where now you have a lifestyle you're trying to support and you have to sell yourself out to have a hit. And my goal was to try and avoid being in that position ever. So I've always been very conservative with my money, simply for the fact that I wanted to try and be a good parent to my music.
SIMON: Let's listen, if we could, to "Satisfy."
(Soundbite of song, "Satisfy")
JEWEL: (Singing) If you love somebody, you better let it out. Don't hold it back while you're trying to figure it out. Don't be timid. Don't be afraid to hurt. Run toward the flame. Run toward the fire and hold on for all your worth. 'Cause the only real pain a heart can ever know is the sorrow of regret when you don't let your feelings show...
SIMON: Would I be wrong to think that this is kind of your song?
JEWEL: Yeah, it's a pretty personal lyric. You know, it's funny. As a kid, I always knew what would make me happy and I always struggled to work toward it. And I realized in my early 30's that I didn’t actually even know what made me happy. It's a lot simpler, things, than I thought.
I don’t know. You know, a lot of heroes were artists and a lot of them did great work. But they often died unhappy or estranged from their family. But -Steinbeck had written "The Grapes of Wrath," but at what cost? And I started looking at that, especially - I got to do a movie with Ang Lee, and I looked at doing a full-time acting career and a music career.
But when I looked at the cost of that, and I had just met my husband at that point, I thought, you know, I want my whole life to be a great work of art, not just my art. And that means paying attention to my entire life and trying to make sure my whole life is balanced.
And so I really stepped away from acting. I turned down work. I quit touring a lot of the world, in Asia and Europe and Australia, because I wanted to make sure I had a balanced life and I wasn’t just going to become some drug-addled, unhappy person that had a great career but had a miserable home life.
And all those thoughts and everything that I put into that is sort of what I put into writing the lyrics for "Satisfied," that it really is the simplest things - making sure you're spending time with the people you love.
SIMON: Boy, you’ve really thought about this, haven't you?
(Soundbite of laughter)
JEWEL: I over-think everything, I guess.
SIMON: Well, Jewel, it's been wonderful talking to you. Thanks so much.
JEWEL: Thank you. I really appreciate it.
SIMON: Jewel's new CD, "Sweet and Wild." Its in stores now. She joined us from NPR West.
Thank you, Jewel.
JEWEL: Thank you. I really appreciate it.
SIMON: Oh, my pleasure.
JEWEL: I’m such a fan. Thanks for having me on the show.
SIMON: Well, our pleasure. You're welcome any time.
JEWEL: Thank you.
I got the idea and instructions here at the blog MADE. Check it out. You too may find a new use for a unused dress shirt in your closet.
Enjoy, Jeana
In the past there have been three items that would cause me to go grocery shopping: milk, diapers and yogurt. Most other things I could do without for a few days. I am glad to say that I have eliminated yogurt from my list now that I have learned to make it myself. My sister-in-law Sarah inspired me to give yogurt making a try and I am so glad she did. It’s not hard to do, though it does take time, but the time is well worth it. The result is a super cheap, super delicious, healthy food. Here are the instructions. I have also tried this version, but I like the first one better.
The yogurt is super cheap and low-fat because you can use your food storage non-fat powdered milk. I LOVE discovering new uses for my food storage. Not only do I eat it every morning for breakfast, but I’ve used the yogurt in a chocolate ice box cake, batches and batches of mint chocolate chip frozen yogurt, and my favorite, in chicken tikka masala.
Now, I need to work on eliminating diapers from my list and completely potty training Eva. If only that were as easy as making yogurt.
-Enjoy, Jeana
Our girls love their boys and couldn’t be happier following them around. The kids very quickly paired off as couples.
Here’s Eva with Garrett and Tyler with Mally. The worst of it was demonstrated at bedtime when the sneaky kids made plans to sneak into each others bedrooms. I won’t share the details here, but it was funny.
We enjoyed good food (Stacy bakes incredible cookies) and gorgeous views.
The happy couple.
The happy girls.
Us from the cabin’s back porch. LOVE the view.
Thanks Henries for letting us play with you. We LOVED it.
I’ll just share a few pictures with captions. I’m not going to write too much about girls’ camp because I’ve been home five days and I am still catching up on sleep, laundry, and dishes.
When we arrived there was animal poo EVERYWHERE! Here’s Pam scooping up poo.
And here’s Meredith showing off the poo that was flung on her.
We didn’t know what kind of animal poo it was until we saw this dead lamb on the side of the trail. That gave us a clue. Another ward named the dead lamb Sam and wrote and performed a whole song about him. It was quite funny.
Here are some of the cute girls. They were great and great to each other. We only had minimal drama between girls.
This photo totally needs explaining. Those are the leaders acting as tempters for a faith hike activity for the girls. They look like they are having a little too much fun with the “cigars and alcohol.”
Here’s a camp fire gone a bit out of control. The fire was burning nicely until Bro. S decided to burn all the cardboard he could find. Leave it to the priesthood to be pyros. Even adult boys have to show off in front of girls.
The fearless and sleepless leaders.
Here I am with Rachel. I bet you can tell our ward’s color was green. I’m glad I went and I’m glad I’m home.
With Aubri living with us and being able to watch our girls we thought it was the perfect time to sneak away for a couple's vacation to...
